Jan 04 2009
Does True Love really exist?
Well, for me the answer is “Yes”. I don’t know about others and to be very honest I don’t even care if anyone else believes it or not. But I do feel obliged to those scientists who finally discovered “True love” and proved it with brain scans of new and old couples to show that some couples can respond with as much passion, after 20 years of living with each other, as most couples exhibit only in the beginning of their relationships. Wow, What a discovery!
I do agree with the fact that this finding has actually changed the conventional view about love and sexual desire and how it fades out with time, but for only those who badly needed some clinical proofs to endorse their love or their ideas about love. There is no doubt that such peoples are in overwhelming majority these days.
Well in these days if you tell somebody that after 20 years of being married you still look at your partner as you did when you first met, he wouldn’t believe you or most probably would call you a liar or a person who is simply fooling himself. Now you can refer to this scientific research and tell them that peoples can’t fake brain scans.
Problem with such peoples is that they don’t have enough time to even think about their own feelings and how they react to things and why? They are too much pre occupied with their daily lives, tight schedules, financial problems, social issues and much more. They still love and have sexual desires; they do have good and bad times and make memories, sometimes without even giving it much attention. They just do all these things because it is human nature and they look at love and sexual desire as it is just another physical need like eating and sleeping. They don’t think much about the chemistry of love and relationship. Having sex is all what they need so all the other things like passion, spark and charm of relationship fade out as years pass. That’s why they don’t know and can’t even understand that true love and life long passionate relationship can actually exist.
True love does exist and I have seen many couples in my life that spent their whole lives being in proud and passionate relationship.
My own parents in law are married for more than 35 years but they still can’t stay away from each other for longer periods of time. They have 4 children and 6 grand children. They still love and pamper each other like newly wedded couples. They do actually enjoy being together, if this is what we call true love.
I can still see a glow in the eyes of my maternal grandmother when she speaks about her late husband who passed away 22 years ago. She can still remember the old good days and it makes her smile like he is right there to hold her hand and tell her how much he loves her. I think this is what we can call true love and it surely exists.
I thik Love Neva die It may be 1% but its still here in this world and in our hearts we neva know about it may be we neva try to know but who know for him love is still alive.
aww, cute post. I’m a believer - nice to get the extra evidence behind me though.
Yes the fact is true love does exist even in the present day society.
When your love is true you would not even realize how and when you fell in it. It just happens to you. You would never even know or realize how you developed such feelings but you would have a strong inclination towards the person you love and such feelings would be heart felt.
You would miss that person every moment- This is the real test of your love. You would always miss the person you love each and every moment of your life no matter what. You would always want to be around him or her as much as possible.
I must agree with each of you. True love exists and isnt going away. I can remeber when I met my wife for the first time, and can even after 5.5 years of marriage remember what she was wearing. I think many of us fall out of love because we focus on the bad times and loose sight of the good ones. I all ways work with this rule of thumb-bad times come and go, the good ones last a lifetime.
I totaly agree wid ur article, true love never dies, providing it is true. When true love is found u will see your whole life change around you..its the best feling ever. To love someone with your heart and soul the perfect person for u..its true love…Hold on to it with dear life because these feeling dont come everyday…
True love the best feeling ever….i have loved so i can agree..Hold onto it coz these felings dont come along again…
umm well i dun think love exist :d there is no such thing as love its all basically when u care for sum1 n u dun wanna see them hurt thts wht ppl call love :-s. n tru love is everywhere :d but for love like romeo n juliet in these days its hard to find :d……
as for tru love in these days i dun think it exists.. how can u say ur in love? i dun think there is anythin which is real love basically wht it is ryt its like when u care for sum1 n u dun wanna see them hurt thts wht ppl class as love :d n as for romeo n juliet times hmmm yea mayb tht was wht u call “tru love”
TRUE LOVE… My personell opinion on true love and regards to the article it does exist, how much it exists, on each side, one sided love or over powering love, wat kind of love and controlable love were one is more deeply in love than the other, LOVE is part of hurt which is give and take from each side the word love is RESPECT, if u have that then true love never finshes no matter were u are who ur with..love does exist….
True love…..wat is true love? I dont think true love exists in todays society, people are way to selfish. The meaning of love has been faded with modern day society..Dont belive it if anyone tells u they love u becoz they only love you when and how they want, not unconditionaly and without and boundries…Beware of fake lovers….
True love does indeed exist. But, so many times people make the rational decision to go with somebody better looking or richer, more well established or other similar reasons. I have seen it. I have felt it. I have lived it.
I think love does exist but you have to work at it for it to be considered true love. Try showing love and affection when you are up at 3 am with a screaming baby and you are covered in spit up, now that’s true love.